Getting happiness
I have a theory that people do things just because they want to be happy. I have had this theory a long time and I haven't seen any proof that it isn't true. That is one reason why I made this site. I know a lot of about happiness and if I can make some money or someone happier with my information I think that this site has been succesfull. I have been happy almost all of my life. That doesn't mean that there haven't been any bad times in my life, not at all. More likely that I just can handle every bad thing more positive. I have realized that there are lot of people who aren't happy and even more people who would like to be happier.I try to share my keys to happiness as good as I can and I will keep updating this site whenever something important stuff about happiness pop on my mind.
Basic things about happiness
If someone could sell happiness, he would be very rich man. Unfortunately that is impossible. There are so many things that make people happy or unhappy that you just can't sell one thing to everybody. Some people are happy when they can drive fast and others are most happiest when they just lay down and listen good music. Things that make most people happy:
Friends
Usually people doesn't like to be alone. People want to be part of something. That might be because group of people are always
stronger than single man. If you are alone there is so many skills you must have so you can survive. Being part of something is also
good for your happiness, because you can can share your unhappiness and if someone is happy you can be happy too.
basic needs (resting, eating, security)
If you haven't got enough something basic need, you just can't be happy. I think that one reason why people thing that money makes
them happy is because you can satisfy some of your basic needs with money. Think about people who doesn't have money for food and
then they get their salary or just found some money. Then they can eat something good and of course they think that money made they happy.
Which is partly true, but if you have enough money for food, you just don't get same kind of satisfaction if you get more money.
Routine
When you just do your job, go home, eat, watch tv, sleep and then go back to work, you get bored. Same thing if you are still student.
Doing same kind of things over and over isn't smartest thing to do. I have notice that when I do same things over and over, it is almost
useless. Example when I designed this site, I used lot of time without any good results, but after I did something totally different
I could see easier some good solves to my problems. I got different point of view. You can think that as a mount climbing. If you
just try to go directly to the top, it is extremely difficult, but if you climb a bit and then rest a little, climb again, move couple of metres
to another location, it is lot easier and you can finally make it to the top, You probably enjoy doing that, because there are lot of times
when you just sit down, rest and look how beautiful nature is. That same thing goes to all problems: it is easier and you enjoy more
if you don't try to do hard things all the time. Take a break, do something totally different. Even something crazy. Nothing is more
relaxing than doing something just totally insane and best of all: you get some great memories by doing it. Last winter me and my
friend decided to try wich would be best thing to come down the hill. We tested everything we found: a monitor, a computer, a cd, a sledge...
It was just great evening and totally insane and there were -30 celsius out there, so it was quite cold also. It was also great time. I didn't
thought my school works at whole evening. Later when I get back to home I could concentrate better to my school works. It helped
a lot that I spend that evening and let my brains rest.